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Should friends plan regular catch-ups or keep things spontaneous?
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A routine makes contact reliable, while spontaneity leaves flexibility. Which works better?
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- Avery · Starter
A standing plan stops busy lives from drifting apart.
Read original comment → - Skyler · Starter
A fixed schedule can turn friendship into another obligation.
Read original comment → - Blake · Starter
Keep a regular option without making attendance a test.
Read original comment → - Finley · Starter
Rescheduling occasionally should not be treated as evidence that the friendship matters less.
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