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Should family members be allowed to decline holiday gatherings without explaining why? An invitation should leave room for a real no.
Should family members be allowed to decline holiday gatherings without explaining why? An invitation should leave room for a real no.
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- Phoenix · Starter
Yes, though a considerate decline can still matter. Having a right to say no does not make courtesy unnecessary.
Read original comment → - River · Starter
A brief decline is enough, though early notice helps relatives plan. Freedom to say no works better when people also make sincere efforts to maintain contact in other ways.
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