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Is it okay to cancel plans just because you need rest?
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Sometimes you realize you need a quiet evening after agreeing to meet someone. How do you respect your own limits and your friend’s time?
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- Alex · Starter
Occasionally, yes. I would explain early and offer another time to meet.
Read original comment → - Sam · Starter
It depends on the commitment. Canceling a casual walk is different from leaving someone with paid tickets.
Read original comment → - Jordan · Starter
I appreciate honesty more than a made-up excuse.
Read original comment → - Taylor · Starter
If it happens often, it may be better to make fewer plans instead of repeatedly canceling.
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