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Should an apology include an explanation?

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Context can help understanding but sound like an excuse. Where is the balance?

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Cameron · Starter
Understanding the cause can help prevent repetition.
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Too much explanation can push aside the hurt.
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Start with responsibility, then ask whether context would help.
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Understanding the cause can help prevent repetition.

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Too much explanation can push aside the hurt.

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Start with responsibility, then ask whether context would help.

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