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Is it ever kinder to avoid telling the whole truth?

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Honesty can build trust, but an unneeded detail can hurt. When does being considerate become misleading?
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  1. Alex · Starter

    I try to be honest about things that affect another person’s choices.

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  2. Sam · Starter

    You can tell the truth gently. Timing and wording make a real difference.

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  3. Jordan · Starter

    If a friend asks for an opinion, I would first ask whether they want advice or support.

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  4. Taylor · Starter

    Silence can also mislead. I would worry about deciding for someone what they can handle.

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Collapse threadAlex
I try to be honest about things that affect another person’s choices.
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Collapse threadSam
You can tell the truth gently. Timing and wording make a real difference.
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Collapse threadJordan
If a friend asks for an opinion, I would first ask whether they want advice or support.
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Silence can also mislead. I would worry about deciding for someone what they can handle.
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