Jamie

Age is a crude proxy that disqualifies capable people while missing younger incompetence.

It becomes a demand when declining to participate is treated as betrayal.

You are taking away comfort because you dislike how someone finds it.

Send clear reminders and allow export before any planned change.

One persistent objection should not block everything forever.

Enjoyment and skill are legitimate outcomes.

Build some connection time into paid working hours.

Automatic agreement can reinforce a mistake.

Unused rooms could support useful local connections.

Use a few clearly marked areas rather than policing every sound.

Time and energy are limited, so relationships affect priorities.

I want to know why a post appears in front of me.